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January 15, 2010

'Must-not-use' words

Some words I failed to understand the meaning of. Even Google couldn’t get me a good- enough-explanation.

9 words that seem to jack your mind…

  1. Compatibility - Capability of existing or performing in harmonious or congenial combination
  2. Insecurity - the anxiety you experience when you feel vulnerable
  3. Anxiety - a vague unpleasant emotion that is experienced in anticipation of some (usually ill-defined) misfortune
  4. Apprehensive - mentally upset over possible misfortune or danger etc
  5. Thought- The act or process of thinking; cogitation.
  6. Feeling- An affective state of consciousness, such as that resulting from emotions, sentiments, or desires:
  7. Possessiveness- Having or manifesting a desire to control or dominate another, especially in order to limit that person's relationships with others:
  8. Uneasy - lacking a sense of security or affording no ease or reassurance
  9. Reaction- a response indicating a person's feelings or emotional attitude

In sequence, compatibility rules. If you cant even think of possibly being friends with a stranger….its the end! Play UNO….skip….

Between compatibility and uneasiness…the remaining words seem to creep in.

Let’s get this statement…..

“I thought you felt bad. But I don’t think you should think too much. I kinda feel anxious and insecure. But I am not possessive either. And I continue to feel uneasy. Maybe it’s just my apprehensions! But I don’t want you to react”.

Now with the help of the googed out meanings….I try to make sense of the above line…

“I can’t stop thinking ...irrespective of what you tell me. Same may be your case. But I also think …that you feel in a certain way….and I won’t know what you actually feel until you tell me. The Moment you tell me what’s on your mind…I become anxious, uneasy and insecure. Hold it….But I’m not thinking so…I am just feeling so. Since you have no control over what I feel….you should not react coz I just expressed my feelings. And fundamentally, to me... you reacting means….you thinking something opposite to what I am thinking.”

A new game begins…play the Blame, join the hall of fame!

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The end of it. I still didn't understand anything!

The words still remain and will continue to exist for ages…

People fond of these will continue using them...and confuse zillions that they come across!

(P.S: No offense to anybody. I mean it!)

5 comments:

DiDo said...

bola na.."all is well" bachha..

dont bother finding the ans for these....itss a big maze.. the more u get into it...the more u get confused...


just rant it out ...remove even the slightest irritation u have.. n u will feel better.

Sab moh-maya hai... ;)


relaxxx

ATT said...

Quite intriguing thought which happens in daily life and many relationships. As a film-making student - I try to use the creation logic here... I can say - confusion is generally (or can be) 'created' to distract one from reaching the final take. The other words creep between the words 1 and 8 in your post, and you tried to make sense of with meanings - try to reverse it! Confusion is meant to hide the end or change the plot? call it reverse psychology...

Unknown said...

Zindagi sawalon ke jawab dhoondne chali - jawab mein sawalon ki ek lambi si ladee mili . . .

Vidyesh said...

The human mind plays tricks , it makes you hate something that you will fall in deep love later and vice versa.

Analyze -> Contemplate -> Discuss -> Decide -> Propose.

The reverse ends only in breakup.

Jiji Varghese said...

The beginning is always good, and the end if decided - everything which creeps in between is 'manipulations' !